We weaned Ellie May and Frodo a couple months ago and since then they've been in a pen together, just the two of them. After a while we started letting them out for most of the day and everything has been going along fine, except for one thing.
Before we weaned, they were tame as could be. We rubbed on them every day, picked up their feet, stuff like that. Once we took their mothers away, it being winter, we didn't play with them so much. The only time we handled them was when we fed and that was just to pet them. It turned out to not be enough.
Ellie May has a shy, timid personality. Susie, her mom, is the same way. We don't know if she was born that way or if it developed from the way she was treated. That personality took over not only her foal, but Frodo started copying her as well. They decided they didn't have to let us touch them.
We definitely had to stop this behavior. The first thing we did was separate them. Frodo adjusted just fine, but not Ellie May. She still calls to him. They can see one another, but a pen containing Wakinyan is between them.
Then, we started working them in the round pen. After a few days,Tom had gotten no where with Ellie May, so he decided to get more drastic.
First he roped her on foot. She didn't freak out or anything, but she wouldn't give either.
The next day he roped her from Wakinyan. She still didn't give in. If she was a rank, older animal, he would have done what it took and let the horse bully her, but that's a little harsh for a baby.
That evening he came up with another plan.
He figured out a squeeze chute type of thing using panels. He put the panel that's in front out perpendicular and got her stopped facing it and then swung the panel he's leaning against up close to her. It worked really well. She didn't like it one bit, but she had to let him pet and brush her.
Meanwhile, I'd been playing with Frodo in the round pen. I could get him to turn and face up, but couldn't get closer than him sniffing my hand before he'd bolt. I decided to try the squeeze chute as well.
He immediately became submissive and I easily put a halter on him.
He's coming around fast without Ellie May's influence.
Today Ellie May acted the same way she has been, but Tom is just being patient and slowly introducing her to new things, like climbing up above her and rubbing her with a halter.
In the afternoon we turn them out together.
School's out!
They've really bonded. They move together in that flowing way that a mare and foal or a wild herd has.
One thing I know. We will never let this happen again.